I Didn’t know

What to do

Now I Help other Men Who Feel The Same Way

If you're at the edge, convinced you're going to lose everything, I've been there. Let me show you a way out.

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What Clients Are Saying

My mission is to help men heal their deepest emotional wounds,

lead themselves and their families with grounded authentic masculinity,

and dominate life with unshakable presence and purpose.

I work with driven, high level men who are crushing it in business, but crumbling in their personal lives. From the outside, these men are leaders, providers, real fucking winners. But behind closed doors, they’re battling emotional chaos. Anger that feels uncontrollable at times, uncontrollable sadness, grief, and disconnection from their partners, guilt over how they show up for their kids, just a constant inner war they can’t seem to win.

My mission is to help these men heal their deepest emotional wounds, many of which stem from childhood trauma, neglect, or emotional abandonment. These unprocessed experiences continue to sabotage their relationships, self-worth, and emotional control, even decades later.

Through deep emotional healing and masculine embodiment work, I guide men to reclaim their identity, break free from destructive patterns, and become the grounded, present, emotionally intelligent leaders their families need.

Most men are wounded

and wired for survival.

They’ve been taught to suppress emotions, avoid vulnerability, and grind through life no matter what. But at a cost, often connection, peace, and purpose.

That’s where my work comes in. This is transformation, but only for the man who’s ready to stop numbing, stop pretending, and finally face the truth.

  • Heal the emotional wounds driving your anger, depression, anxiety, and disconnection.

  • Lead yourself and your family with strength, stability, and self-respect.

  • Dominate life by showing up with unshakable presence, purpose, and masculine integrity.

I’ve helped countless men take their power back, with clarity, courage, and emotional mastery.

When you heal the man, you heal the marriage.
When you heal the man, you reconnect the family.
When you heal the man, you rewrite the legacy.

If you're ready to become the man you were always meant to be, let’s talk.

The 90-Day Emotional

Mastery Transformation

Jason offers a direct, grounded approach to emotional leadership for directors, executives, lawyers, and other high level men who keep getting hijacked by old reactions. This work helps you spot the exact moments your system flips into protection, understand what is actually driving the trigger, and train a response that holds under real pressure. The result is simple: more clarity, steadier confidence, and resilience you can feel in your relationships, your parenting, your decisions, and the way you lead your life.

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Week 1-3: Trigger Clarity

Identify the exact moments you flip into control, shutdown, or overdrive. Understand what's actually driving the pattern.

Week 4-8: Root Level Healing

Go to the source. Heal the childhood wounds, process the stored emotions, rewire the survival patterns.

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Week 9-11: Nervous System Command

Train your body to regulate in real-time. Fast, usable tools that work under pressure.

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Week 12-13: Integration

Lock it in. Build the routines, relationships, and standards that make this your new normal.

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The result: More clarity, steadier confidence, and resilience you can feel in your relationships, your parenting, and the way you lead your life.

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I Spent Most of My Life

Thinking I Was Broken

I grew up in an emotionally and psychologically abusive household with an alcoholic father and a codependent mother. I believed early on that something was fundamentally wrong with me. That I wasn't enough. That I didn't belong.

I carried that belief into my marriage. Into fatherhood. Into every relationship.

I used alcohol to numb it. I used work to avoid it. I used anger to protect myself from feeling it.

And when I finally got sober and my marriage fell apart, I hit bottom. There was a moment with a gun where I genuinely didn't know if I could keep going.

I didn't want to die. I just didn't know how to live with what I was feeling.

That's when I finally did the work I'd been avoiding my whole life. Not the surface stuff. The real work.

  • Inner child healing - going back to those moments and finally telling that younger version of me the truth

  • Nervous system regulation - teaching my body it was safe to feel without breaking

  • Emotional processing - actually feeling the grief, rage, and shame I'd been running from for decades

And slowly, the obstacle dissolved.

The belief that I was broken? It lost its power.

The rage that hijacked me? I could catch it before it took over.

The shame sitting on my chest? It lifted.

Within 90 days, I had clarity, calm, emotional control, and energy I hadn't felt in years. I finally came home to myself.

That's when I realized: I'm not broken. I was wounded. And wounds can heal.

Since then, I've helped hundreds of high level men do the same. Men who felt exactly like I did, successful on the outside, crumbling on the inside.

This work isn't therapy. It's not talking about your past for years.

It's going straight to the root, the survival patterns locked in your body since childhood, and healing them. Fast.

If you're where I was, successful but secretly struggling, one episode away from losing what matters most, let's talk.

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If you Do this work

Here’s what You’ll Walk Away With

  • Wake up feeling like everything will finally be ok

  • Feel more emotionally stable and clear-headed

  • React less and be able to respond with confidence

  • Heal the wounds that have sabotaged your peace

  • Reconnect with the people you love

  • Understand yourself on a level most people never reach

  • Start living your life fully, not just performing

  • Maybe even find a deeper purpose than just getting through the day

Who This Is For

This is for you if…

  • You’re high-functioning on the outside but secretly exhausted inside

  • You’ve lost motivation, meaning, or emotional connection

  • You’re tired of pretending you’re okay

  • You’re ready to do deep internal work with someone who gets it

  • You want peace, not just productivity

  • You’re willing to feel again, even if it’s uncomfortable at first

This is not for you if…

  • You’re looking for hacks or surface-level mindset tricks

  • You’re not open to examining your past or your emotions

  • You’re not ready to be challenged and supported at a deep level

  • You’re hoping someone else will do the work for you

What We Work On

Every client is different. But here’s what we often uncover and transform together:

  • Unprocessed trauma that hijacks you in the middle of normal conversations

  • Rage episodes that scare your kids and push your wife away

  • Emotional numbness that makes you feel dead inside even when life looks great

  • Nervous system dysregulation that keeps you anxious, tense, or ready to explode

  • Relationship patterns where you pull away right when people get close

  • Lack of purpose beyond just grinding and providing

What’s Included

Weekly 1-on-1 coaching calls (Google Meet)

  1. Direct message support between sessions

  2. Personalized emotional healing tools (journaling, breathwork, somatic work, etc.)

  3. Shadow work, inner child healing, and belief rewiring (if and when you're ready)

  4. A confidential space to be fully seen, heard, and understood—maybe for the first time in your life

Investment for the full 90-day program is discussed on our call. Payment plans available.

FAQ

Is this therapy?
No. Therapy focuses on diagnosis and talking through your past. This work focuses on regulation and rewiring your nervous system. We go straight to the root, the survival patterns locked in your body since childhood, and we heal them. Fast. Most of my clients tried therapy for years with minimal results. They needed something more direct, more body-based, more action-oriented. That's what this is.

What if I’ve done a lot of self-help already?
Then you’re exactly who this is for. If what you’ve done worked, you wouldn’t be here. This is the deep work.

Do I need to talk about my childhood?
Only if you want to understand why you keep reacting like that 8-year-old version of you. We’ll go there when you’re ready.

How long is the commitment?
90 days. Weekly calls. Fully integrated inner child healing and growth work assignments. Daily message access. Transformation doesn’t have to take forever, but it does require consistency.

What happens after the 90 days?
Most clients continue using the tools for life. Some choose to keep going with more advanced work. Either way, you’ll never see yourself, or your life, the same again.

Ready to Get Started?

Here's what happens next:

1. Click the button below to see my calendar

2. Pick a time that works for you (calls can range from 45 minutes to 2 hours)

3. We'll talk about where you are, what's keeping you stuck, and if this work is right for you

If after our call you decide this isn't for you, no problem. But if you are ready and there's space, we start immediately. First session usually happens within 48 hours.

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Spaces are limited

can you afford to wait?

This isn’t a course. It’s not a group thing. It’s just you and me, getting honest, doing the work, and walking through whatever you’ve been carrying.

And because this work runs deep, I only work with five people at a time. That’s my line. Any more than that, and I can’t show up the way you deserve.

If you’re feeling the pull, don’t wait.

If there’s space, we’ll talk. If there’s not, I’ll put you on the list and reach out the moment something opens up.

This is your chance to stop pretending everything is fine... and start figuring out what life looks like when you’re actually free.

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